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The Fleshlight is the number one selling sex toy on the market, but you already know that, don’t you? A company called ILF started making this product several years ago, and it has grown in popularity during the years, to a point where it is famous (or infamous) worldwide.
You may wonder if it is worth it to buy a Fleshlight for yourself, so I will continue this review by telling you about how it was for me.
My experience with the Fleshlight
I recently read a review that said that it was bad, but this is not true at all. That is a big lie. A product like this (competing with other masturbation devices) wouldn’t be popular if it was bad. I have been a user for several years and I can guarantee an intense experience that you must try for yourself. I currently own five of them and there is a very clear “winner”, so let me tell you more about it. There are many different “sleeves” that you can insert into the case and what you need to do is to find a sleeve that’s suitable for you. Best Fleshlight on the market is the super ribbed sleeve, according to my opinion. It’s the most intense of them all. Stay away from the original sleeve. It’s not as tight as the other sleeves. Also remember to stay away from “Fleshlube”. It is not very good compared to ID Glide.
Proper usage
Make sure to use at least 4 drops of lube on the orifice before each session. You can use water to re-enable the lube if it drys out during a session. Remember to go slow! Going too fast is not a good idea and it is less pleasurable. If you are a first time user, then you will need to use a lot of lube since your skin will be a lot more sensitive compared to an experienced user like myself.
This is especially true if you are uncircumcised. Slow and steady is the best way to make sure that you really feel all ribs inside the sleeve if you pick the super ribbed one or any other type of ribbed sleeve. You can also get a mount for your Fleshlight or place it between pillows, but the best way is to just hold it with your hands. There are a lot of videos on the web showing people using it. It is a good idea to take a look at one of those to see how good it is.
Fleshlights you can try
There are many different versions of this toy that you can try.
These are just some of them:
- Stamina Training Unit (STU) – very popular among beginners. I recommend it since it is easier to take with you.
- Pink Lady Original – I don’t recommend this product at all since it has no texture – it will cause very little sensation and possibly irritation of your skin.
- Girls – Stoya – Very nice textures in this series. I recommend them all.
- Orgy from BlueBird Films – Not a bad combo package. You should take a look at it.
- Euro – Just pick an orifice you like. I would pick primal or mini-lotus as inserts. Eufrat Mai also has the vortex insert.
- Destroya – Very nice insert. I suggest you try it.
- Wonder Wave – Some people say this is a lot like normal intercourse.
- Speed Bump – I haven’t tried this insert.
- Heavenly – This is a new insert which I’ve not seen before.
- Tornado – Looks like it doesn’t really give that much stimulation since it isn’t ribbed.
- Barracuda – This one is also new for me. Why not try it?
How to clean your Fleshlight
It is very easy to maintain your Fleshlight in good condition. The cleaning process is easy and fast and you don’t need to worry about not being able to clean it properly.
You just wash it (both the suction cap (since this is where your load will end up) and the sleeve itself) with warm water after being used and then let the sleeve dry before you insert it back into the case. It is very important that you let the sleeve dry for at least 12 hours or until it is completely dry because it will easily catch mold (you will need to throw it away it it does). You don’t have to put it in warm water before you use it if you don’t want to or if you just can’t wait to use it. It will heat up by your body temperature after a while anyway. However, it is a different experience to try it warm. When you use it, screw the bottom on as tight as you can. This creates the most suction and is the most pleasurable way of usage.
LaunchPAD for iPad
There is a new fun/stupid (take your pick) accessory which is a holder for your Ipad. I have no idea if this is a good thing or not (I’m not going to buy it), but I believe it would be kind of hard to see what’s on the screen while your FLing.
If you decide to use this one, then leave a comment below to let us know how it worked out for you (Steve Jobs wouldn’t be too happy about this one).
The shipment process
You will not need to face any embarrassing moments when ordering. They ship it in a brown box marked with ILF Inc. There is no way to tell what’s inside the box. You will get your shipment from UPS to your door. The shipment usually doesn’t take more than 3 days, but it depends on what shipping option you choose.
Conclusion of our Fleshlight Review
If you still are unsure about getting a Fleshlight and think your right hand is good enough, then think again. This is nothing like your right hand at all. This sex toy will change your life for the better. You will be able to have real intense orgasms whenever you want and you will also learn how to control your ejaculations better. I would say this is a very good “male enhancement” toy, especially if you suffer from premature ejaculation.
It will also let you learn when to slow down during sex and also take the pressure off because you know you will be able to “get off” whenever you want. If this sounds right for you then a Fleshlight is something that you must have. Order your Fleshlight today – you won’t regret it – ever! Don’t forget to buy a lube that will last you at least a couple of months! 2-3x ID Glide Sensitive is my recommendation! To buy your own Fleshlight, follow these easy steps:
- Go to the official website (EU or US).
- Click on Fleshlight toys and go to Build Your Own.
- Pick the case you want (I would pick the clear case).
- Select an orifice you like.
- Select a sleeve you like. (I recommend the super ribbed).
- Add to cart, checkout and pay and you’re done!
That’s the whole ordering process. Very easy! There are of course many other toys on their website that might interest you.
hi, just wondering, if you had to choose between destroya, Bi hive and lotus fleshlights, which would you choose?
I would pick the the destroya (a bit less intense), but preferably the super tight super ribbed sleeve.
I am about 6″ on a good day. Does length matter with a fleshlight?
It generally doesn’t matter. Most inserts do have the same texture all the way to the end.